What should I know before I purchase?
Vaginal dilators help with vaginismus. Vaginal dilators are tube-shaped devices used to gently expand and relax the vagina and surrounding pelvic muscles.
Hope&Her's Vaginal Dilators help with the treatment of vaginismus and related conditions by using gradual insertion to relieve vaginismus tightness and pain during intimacy (see Instructions for Use for further information).
When sex or intimacy is painful or uncomfortable, it is frequently due to a condition known as vaginismus. Vaginismus is vaginal tightness causing discomfort, burning, pain, intimacy problems or the complete inability to have intercourse. It may occur at any age, even after enjoying intercourse previously.
You may be wondering if you or someone you love has vaginismus. Vaginismus may be present if any of the following symptoms have been persistent for at least 6 months:
• Burning or stinging with tightness during sexual intercourse
• Difficult or impossible penetration, entry pain, uncomfortable insertion of penis
• Difficulty inserting tampons or undergoing pelvic/gynecological exams or procedures
• Avoidance of sex due to pain and/or failure
• Anxiety or fear related to having sexual intercourse due to anticipated pain
If you think you may have vaginismus, we suggest you make an appointment with a medical professional in order to be properly diagnosed.
Note: If you have the following symptoms, a professional medical assessment prior to purchasing dilators is required:
• Abnormal vaginal discharge
• Abnormal vaginal bleeding
• Skin changes to the outside of the vagina like tears, redness, bumps, etc.
Contraindications: Do not purchase or use this product if you have a genital infection, open wounds, or pregnancy.
Shipping
Shipping is free within the USA.
For USA orders, neither the website name nor product name is visible on the package label or shipping mailer. A generic name is used for the return address.
For privacy in international orders, customs forms are completed with generic terms as much is possible. Outer packaging is plain for privacy.
Returns
Unfortunately, vaginal dilators are not returnable due to health and safety reasons.
Customer Feedback
"I ordered dilators through your website and they're great! I am so glad there is a website like yours, dedicated to helping woman like me attain normal sex lives. Keep up the good work and thanks!"
"I wanted to send you all my many THANKS to you for your help... Sex is easy and painless for us now and we hope that other couples will not be ashamed to admit their problems and seek help. Victory can be accomplished and the reward is so VERY worth it. Thank you for providing this help to many couples."
"Very helpful indeed...I was able to have sex for the first time!..."
"The dilators are great, thank you so much for offering them at a reasonable price. I couldn't have overcome vaginismus without them."
"I’m a forty-year-old woman who hasn’t been able to have intercourse for many years. One day I found your site, I bought your vaginismus kit and in 15 days my huge problem was solved. Thank you!"
"Your products were extremely helpful. I am now cured of this long occurring problem. Thank you!"
"Found the treatment successful...undiagnosed for years and as soon as I found out what it was I researched it...Thank you very much for helping me move on from what has been a really worrying time for me."
"I don't even know how to thank you for helping me overcome one of the biggest obstacles in my life! Before I purchased your kit, I was convinced I would never be able to experience sex...To say the kit was effective would be an understatement! THANKS AGAIN!"
"I am so thankful that I tried your product...I can finally say I consummated my marriage. It's just wonderful to feel pleasure instead of pain. Thank you again"
"My husband and I have been able to enjoy intercourse again! Thank you so much!"
"I had sex yesterday for the first time in 12 years!!!! My parts still work!"
"Just to let you know I purchased dilators and book from you a couple of months ago. And on Wednesday we finally had intercourse! We can't thank you enough it has changed our lives."
"Just to let you know I purchased dilators and book from you a couple of months ago. And on Wednesday we finally had intercourse! We can't thank you enough it has changed our lives."
"I think your kit is amazing. When we were virtually unable to have sex after my daughter's birth, I spoke to my midwife, went to 2 ob/gyn and to lots of appointments with my GP. I had scans and examinations, and all they could come up with was a diagnosis of possible "deep tissue bruising" from the birth - explained to me as similar to a shoulder injury the ob had experienced skiing! He said the pain could take up to 2 years to go away. They also mentioned the possibility of dyspareunia or vaginismus, but weren't able to give any kind of definitive diagnosis or treatment program. I just thought this was ludicrous."
"After about 10 years of not having decent intercourse, things are "working" again. I am really grateful that the solution was so simple."
"Very helpful and informative. After investigating all the information I could find concerning this matter, I felt that your company had the edge and I decided to try your product. I am very happy that I did. It is a very sensitive subject and I feel that you handle it very professionally. Thank you again."
"My husband and I experienced undiagnosed primary vaginismus for 3 years, and finally had the joy (after purchasing your kit and completing the workbooks and therapy) of consummating our marriage on our anniversary! In our bliss, we didn't even think about contraceptives, and conceived on our 6th time together! We are so joyful to be carrying a baby girl who is due in just 4 weeks, and even more blessed to have run into other couples who are/were in our same situation with whom we have shared your website."
"Hi, I bought one of your treatment packs and I'm really pleased with the results so far, so thank you very much!"
"I am glad to say that my girlfriend and I are past vaginismus!!!"
"[I] wish to congratulate you on putting this together. It has been a great help to me...I have conquered my 10-year problem... I am delighted that I went ahead and ordered the full kit. I didn't realize that so many women suffered from this problem. Any woman out there who is suffering - order the kit and I guarantee that you'll overcome this very quickly. It took me about 2 months and I'm thrilled."
"If there is anything at all that you guys need help with please don’t hesitate to ask. I know I am no professional, but I would love to help in anyway that I can to free women from the bondage that vaginismus holds us in. I am forever grateful for the way God has used you and Mark in so many of our lives…I’m sure each day you are in awe of the dreams He has helped you both to accomplish."
"You have done a great job by proving a solution to Vaginismus. I don't have words to express my joy. Every women who has this problem would understand the amount of mental tension one gets. I am an overcomer and am very proud of myself. It has been a long journey for me. I have been trying to have intercourse for 5-1/2 years but no success. I never experienced pain but had fear in my mind. My first experience with the gynecologist was horrible. I changed my gynecologist and she also couldn't explain me the problem that I had. I was literally falling apart and prayed for a miracle everyday. My husband is very understanding and loving. He has a lot of patience. We saw your site one day but couldn't decide what to do. Finally, we ordered the whole Vaginismus kit this May. I followed every step carefully and with a positive attitude and finally yesterday I did it. I am so grateful to you, please keep helping women like me. You are my miracle. Thank you so much."
"We don't know how to thank you. I did not think sex was possible. Every time we tried having sex we were unsuccessful. After 4 years of dating and then getting married. Sex was not a part of our lives which left me feeling frustrated . Even the OBGYN said there was nothing wrong and all I need is time. Time- how much time was the question. That's when we came across this web site and I was willing to give it a try. I think getting the complete kit was the best thing I ever did. After going through the program I was finally able to have my husband inside me. I can't tell you how grateful I am to this website. Thank you..Thank you..Thank you."
"I was prescribed your dilators...I used them regularly and found that they were easy to use, clean, and they worked very well for me."
"This was an amazing discovery. I had been to several doctors and given all kinds of excuses for what was wrong with me. Most of the time I was simply told to try lubricant or a different position. No one could tell me why I was the way I was. I had been fine until about 8 years into my marriage. Then the pain started and escalated until sex was non-existent in our relationship. It was really taking a toll. Eventually we divorced, partly due to this problem. After I got myself together I went looking for the answers that no one else could give me and I finally discovered the truth about what was wrong with me. ...Now, finally I have a relationship that is healthy, happy, and PAIN FREE!!! It was worth every cent and every moment to discover the truth and find happiness again. I would suggest this to anyone who has had even the slightest problem with intercourse. Find the answers before it gets so bad you give up ever being happy. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Again, thank you!!!"
Specialist Feedback
"Very impressed with the design … the tapering of the tip of your design is easier for insertion and the handle component allows for more control."
"As a pelvic floor therapist, I recommend vaginal dilators frequently to help patients assist in their own care. These dilators are perfect. They have a handle which makes it easy for my patients to use, discreet so you can carry them without embarrassment and compact so that they can take them anywhere. Thank you for creating a great product!"
"We use the vaginal dilators to assist in lightly stretching the pelvic floor muscles … Patients are very happy with the results and by giving them the dilators they feel that they are taking an active role in their treatment/recovery. Thank you for your help with these patients."
“A patient mentioned your kit to a physiotherapy colleague who mentioned it to me. I love your product. Thank you for having the fortitude to produce it. I will certainly be promoting it in my gynaecology practise and to my OBGYN colleagues.”
"I was involved as a psychotherapist with a client who had suffered with vaginismus for 5 years since her marriage. The kit was excellent. She followed the exercises including writing in the journal and now describes herself as an 'overcomer'."
"I think your products are great. I recommend them to many of my patients."
"I have treated women with vaginismus for over 20 years. Your products... are very helpful. I use your materials, along with coaching women through difficult times and helping their partners understand what is happening, all with an excellent success rate... Congratulations on your most helpful work."
"I am a sex therapist with a multidisciplinary group of MDs and clinicians. One of my patients with dyspareunia came in with your kit last week … From what I've seen it appears that it would be an excellent adjunct to treatment for many of our patients... Thanks so much.”
"The set comes with a universal handle that easily attaches to the dilator end … and easily inserted by patients … effective and priced well."
