Treatment Kit Reviews

Treatment Kit Reviews


"I was involved as a psychotherapist with a client who had suffered with vaginismus for 5 years since her marriage. The kit was excellent. She followed the exercises including writing in the journal and now describes herself as an 'overcomer'. Unfortunately, she did much of this without the support of her partner as the marriage was failing. However, she did have her first penetrative sexual experience with him after using the kit. I am not trained as a sex therapist specifically, and the (developing) country I was working in did not have any sex therapists that I could refer her to (or any therapists for that matter - that was why I was there). The kit allowed me to help this young woman in ways that working just therapeutically would not have done. She was so relieved to find out that her vaginismus a) had a name and b) was a common condition that could be fairly easily overcome … I am now back in U.K. and would recommend the kit to anyone with the same condition. Keep up the good work."

Barbara Smith, MA, Psychotherapist
(UKCP registered)

"I am a sex therapist with a multidisciplinary group of MDs and clinicians. One of my patients with dyspareunia came in with your kit last week and I was embarrassed not to have heard of it but pleased that such materials exist. … From what I've seen it appears that it would be an excellent adjunct to treatment for many of our patients, and I would love to know more about it. Thanks so much"

Elizabeth Norman, M.Ed. LMFT LPC
AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (Diplomate)

"I am a medical doctor turned counsellor interested in women's health issues in fertility and sexuality. I saw this book Completely Overcome Vaginismus with a client and found it to be really excellent and validated information. The illustrations and contents are simple and yet comprehensive. I can vouch for the fact I have learned more about Vaginismus through this book than even in my undergraduate medical training a decade ago. I appreciated the references and bibliography listed too. As a counsellor I like the way you have integrated the emotional aspects of sexuality and sexuality problems seamlessly into a self healing and self help approach to treating Vaginismus. … Please accept my congratulations on a great product and also the courage to speak about women's sexual concerns in a way that honors what it is be a woman."

Sadhana, MD

"Thank you very much for sending me your kit .... I'd like to start my clinic having at least 10 kits on hand .. to help my patients... Thank you"

Mary Kendell, MS WHCNP
Adjunct Assistant Professor, Dept. OBGYN
George Washington University

"I have received your products today. They seem very useful and I am very grateful and appreciative"

Barbara Green, MBACP, GHR
Chesterfield Relate Psychosexual Therapist

"I am a physical therapist in WV and a member of the APTA's Women's Health Section. I saw … your vaginisumus kit in the journal I receive. I know of several female patients who struggle with dyspareunia and would be in need of a product such as this. Thank you!"

Jamie Mergenthaler, PT

"I recently took the APTA Certification of Achievement for Pelvic Physical Therapy course work and information was that your company is a good referral source for our patients. I am interested in referring patients … I appreciate your assistance."

Edith Arguelles, PT
North Coast Physical Therapy

"We are sexual therapists, authors and speakers and have been in practice treating vaginismus for almost 30 years … We are very pleased to find you and your work. It is excellent. … I have also recommended your web site … I am finally responding to your books: They are the best we have ever seen!! We will use them for our clients from now on. The content, set-up of the content, thoroughness of descriptions and diagrams make it so easy to follow. Everyone should know about your books … we will definitely have them on our book table at our seminars."

Dr. Clifford and Joyce Penner
Internationally recognized sexual therapists, educators and authors

"I think your products are great. I recommend them to many of my patients."

Roger Ferland, MD


"I don't even know how to thank you for helping me overcome one of the biggest obstacles in my life! Before I purchased your kit, I was convinced I would never be able to experience sex. Only a little more than a month after receiving your product, I was on my way to a normal sexually active life! To say the kit was effective would be an understatement! THANKS AGAIN!"

"I purchased your kit recently and thank you … your product and informational booklets have been very helpful and informative. After investigating all the information I could find concerning this matter, I felt that your company had the edge and I decided to try your product. I am very happy that I did. It is a very sensitive subject and I feel that you handle it very professionally. Thank you again"

"My husband and I experienced undiagnosed primary vaginismus for 3 years, and finally had the joy (after purchasing your kit and completing the workbooks and therapy) of consummating our marriage on our anniversary! In our bliss, we didn't even think about contraceptives, and conceived on our 6th time together! We are so joyful to be carrying a baby girl who is due in just 4 weeks, and even more blessed to have run into other couples who are/were in our same situation with whom we have shared your website."

"Hi, I bought one of your treatment packs and I'm really pleased with the results so far, so thank you very much! I think the tone of your book is brilliant and it is a great help knowing there are people who understand what I'm going through … Thank you again"

"I think your kit is amazing. When we were virtually unable to have sex after my daughter's birth, I spoke to my midwife, went to 2 ob/gyns and to lots of appointments with my GP. I had scans and examinations, and all they could come up with was a diagnosis of possible "deep tissue bruising" from the birth - explained to me as similar to a shoulder injury the ob had experienced skiing! He said the pain could take up to 2 years to go away. They also mentioned the possibility of dyspareunia or vaginismus, but weren't able to give any kind of definitive diagnosis or treatment program. I just thought this was ludicrous."

"[I] wish to congratulate you on putting this together. It has been a great help to me … I have conquered my 10-year problem … I have to say, thanks to you there is information available for people now to help them get through this problem and that I had wished for [information] all these years. I am delighted that I went ahead and ordered the full kit. I didn't realize that so many women suffered from this problem. Any woman out there who is suffering - order the kit and I guarantee that you'll overcome this very quickly. It took me about 2 months and I'm thrilled."

"Me and my husband want to thank Mark and Lisa Carter for this great book and all the others on this site. You have done a great job by proving a solution to Vaginismus. I don't have words to express my joy. Every women who has this problem would understand the amount of mental tension one gets. I am an overcomer and am very proud of myself. It has been a long journey for me. I have been trying to have intercourse for 5-1/2 years but no success. I never experienced pain but had fear in my mind. My first experience with the gynecologist was horrible. I changed my gynecologist and she also couldn't explain me the problem that I had. I was literally falling apart and prayed for a miracle everyday. My husband is very understanding and loving. He has a lot of patience. We saw your site one day but couldn't decide what to do. Finally, we ordered the whole Vaginismus kit this May. I followed every step carefully and with a positive attitude and finally yesterday I did it. I am so grateful to you, please keep helping women like me. You are my miracle. Thank you so much."

"We don't know how to thank you. I did not think sex was possible. Every time we tried having sex we were unsuccessful. After 4 years of dating and then getting married. Sex was not a part of our lives which left me feeling frustrated . Even the OBGYN said there was nothing wrong and all I need is time. Time- how much time was the question. That's when we came across this web site and I was willing to give it a try. I think getting the complete kit was the best thing I ever did. After going through the program I was finally able to have my husband inside me. I can't tell you how grateful I am to this website. Thank you..Thank you..Thank you."

"I searched the web, books, and doctors for a couple of years searching for a solution to this problem. All I read was that you needed to find some dilators and practice inserting them. Of course, no one explained where to find them or how to do this. The package I received from you put all the pieces together... I also really love the tone of your written materials. I feel like you empower women like me in a gentle, non-threatening way. Finally, someone who didn't respond to my problem with a huge question mark on their foreheads. Trust me, you are the only ones. … I think your program is wonderful and have passed your web site on to my doctor, at her request, so she can help her other patients with this problem. It's ironic, but I have given her the instructions on how to treat this problem based exclusively on your materials. Thanks again…"

"This was an amazing discovery. I had been to several doctors and given all kinds of excuses for what was wrong with me. Most of the time I was simply told to try lubricant or a different position. No one could tell my why I was the way I was. I had been fine until about 8 years into my marriage. Then the pain started and escalated until sex was non-existent in our relationship. It was really taking a toll. Eventually we divorced, partly due to this problem. After I got myself together I went looking for the answers that no one else could give me and I finally discovered the truth about what was wrong with me. I ordered the booklets and started from page one finding a solution. It took awhile and was at times a little discouraging. Sometimes you don't progress as fast as you want to. Eventually, I made it to the end of the book and had done the exercises as described. Now, finally I have a relationship that is healthy, happy, and PAIN FREE!!! It was worth every cent and every moment to discover the truth and find happiness again. I would suggest this to anyone who has had even the slightest problem with intercourse. Find the answers before it gets so bad you give up ever being happy. There is a light at the end of the tunnel. Again, thank you!!!"

"I am thrilled to say that thanks to your book and kit, I have now overcome vaginismus! After many years of marriage, my husband and I are finally having intercourse. The tips and support provided in this book, opened up many locked away emotions, isolation, fears, doubts and secrets. I just assumed that I had some sort of serious issue with sex, that nobody else could possibly have experienced. I kept just hoping that one day the problem would disappear, but days turned into years, and the problem was never resolved. I was able to release so many emotions and doubts just knowing that other people actually had the same secret struggle. This book was a complete gift emotionally, and the trainers were a physical gift. The combination resulted in success for my husband and I. Thank you so very much!"

"My GP was actually really sensitive, a gentle woman. The best thing she said was not to try to have sex through the pain, to stop having sex altogether until I had resolved the vaginismus. This really took the pressure off as I was able to tell my husband this (although it was of course hard for him). … So it was off to the internet I went … came to your website and bought the kit. This step was a huge relief and empowering, I remember feeling that it was fantastic to be actually doing something towards changing our situation. I'm going to write a letter to all my caregivers telling them about my "recovery", and about your kit. … You can feel very proud that you have put together a product which has helped so many women. It can be a lonely road to recovery, but your product and forum made us realize we weren't alone, and that this too would pass. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. … P.S. Feel free to use any of my words in your promotional material."

"I'd like to thank you from deep heart, I'd like to thank you with every breath. Today I've just got the set with the book. I'm immensely grateful for you help and care. Can't find words to express. Just thank you"

"I cannot thank you enough... Your product acted like a miracle for me. Soon after I got married I realized there’s something wrong with me. I met a gynaecologist and I consider myself lucky for her correct diagnosis of me having vaginismus and introducing me to your products. It just took me a couple of months to overcome it (could even be sooner, if I practiced more frequently). I would like to recommend you to please translate your books to all languages! It’s amazing! Also, in my experience, the liquid lubricants were so much better than the gel lubricants. And the patients should know that they don’t need to be worried about where to locate the dilator or later the penis, as long as they are lubricated, they just slip inside the correct place. Finally, rotating the dilator inside me, was very helpful .. Thank you again so much, you are the best."

"I ordered the complete kit from you all a few weeks ago (and I'm loving the program so much!!!)"

"I just wanted to let you know how truly grateful I am for all that your training kit has done to improve not only my physical health, but also my mental health!"

"I had never been able to achieve intercourse with my boyfriend of 5 years, and after we got married, it was even more devastating to not be able to participate in a healthy sex life. I felt like a failure as a woman, and my hopes for a family with the man of my dreams were slowly melting away. I was finally diagnosed with vaginismus at age 22, and the doctor handed over a set of medical-grade dilators that were not lifelike, comfortable or even possible to insert, and no explanation on how to use them or how my muscles/anatomy would be affected at all. That’s when I started doing research on dilator kits, and I thankfully came across your website!! After ordering the kit and following the training book step by step over a three month period, my husband and I were finally able to have successful intercourse! I feel so strong, capable and in control of my own body!! I feel like my future as a woman and the future of my marriage have opened up completely, and I can not thank you enough for all the positive changes I have seen in myself. It wasn’t always easy, but your program’s encouraging, knowledgable information and messages kept me going every step of the way!!

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!!"

"My name is ** and I was married for about five months before I was able to have sex with my husband. It is because of the Vaginismus complete set, kit and book that my husband and I have been able to enjoy pain-free sex. I know there are so many girls out there who are in the same confusing and depressing position I was once in, and I want to tell my story so that other girls know they’re not alone. . ."